Nap Transitioning Made Easy – Part Two (2 naps to 1)

Of all the nap transitions that take place, going from 2 naps to 1 nap can be the most daunting. The age range when this transition occurs can vary widely, in some cases occurring as early as 12 months of age, and in other cases not occurring until 20 months of age (and for what it’s worth, these were the ages of my two kids when they transitioned).

How to know when your child is ready for the 2 to 1 transition:

Starting as early as 10 months of age, some parents believe their child is ready for the 2 to 1 transition. Babies will often go through periods where they fight a nap (usually nap two) for a while before they fall asleep, or they start to intermittently skip their second nap. This is a common occurrence especially around the 10th month of life. You’ll want to wait until your child is around the 13th month of age or older AND 100% skips their second nap for two straight weeks. Even if your child is 16 months old and occasionally skips their second nap, or even does so frequently, they are not ready to transition to two naps. Wait until your toddler skips their second nap for two straight weeks.

When this occurs, you need to mentally be ready for about a one-month transition period. During this time, it’s important you do not transition from two naps to one nap from day to day. Once you make the commitment to go to one nap, you need to stick to it indefinitely (yes, even if their single nap each day is short).

Let’s assume that before you transition, your child is napping twice a day, around 9 or 10 am, and then again around 2 pm. When you move to one nap, keep your child up until as close as possible to 11 am. If you are not able to keep your child up until 11 am, that’s fine, just get as close as possible. When they fall asleep, around that time, count it as their single nap of the day and keep them up until bedtime. Bedtime can be moved slightly earlier if needed. It is very important that through the first several weeks of the transition you avoid being in the car from 2 pm on as much as is reasonably possible. You want to avoid your child falling asleep in the car in the afternoon. Once your child is easily and quickly falling asleep at 11 am each morning, begin to incrementally move their nap 5-10 minutes later every 2-3 days until they are napping closer to noon. Your child’s single daily nap can start any time between 11:30 am and 1:30 pm and last up to 2.5 or 3 hrs.

It is typical for kids to take short naps at first when going from 2 to 1 naps. Even if your child only sleeps for a short period of time, do NOT give them a second nap. This will preclude their body’s ability to consolidate sleep into a single, longer nap each day.

If your child is struggling to make it until 11:00 am for their single nap, keep them up until as close to that time as possible, then put them down each afternoon for a “rest” period. Put them down around 2:30 pm (close enough to whenever their first nap occurs so that you know they won’t be able to fall asleep) and leave them down for about 30 minutes. Even though they won’t sleep, this rest period in the dark should be enough to recharge their batteries and keep them awake more comfortably until bedtime.

Remember, the transition from 2 to 1 nap can take about a month, so be prepared for some ups and downs and bumps along the way. The name of the game is first waiting for the right time to transition (your child being older than 13 months and having skipped their second nap every day for two weeks in a row), and then being hyper consistent in following the directions above for 30 days.

By | 2017-04-24T21:25:02+00:00 May 15th, 2017|Categories: Nap Training, Nap Transition, Sleep Training|7 Comments

7 Comments

  1. Kyle May 18, 2017 at 9:24 pm - Reply

    Natalie – Thank you so much for taking the time to write out this helpful blog post! In this past week, have have transitioned our 18 month old daughter from 2 naps to 1 nap. She is definitely ready for 1 nap, and in about a month, she will begin attending daycare outside of the home where she will take 1 nap a day as well. We were told nap time occurs from 11am-1pm. That being said, we thought we would mirror the same schedule as the daycare in anticipation of whats to come. You said the nap will gradually extend… Currently we put her down at 11am and for the past 4 days, she has napped for 1.5 hours. Should we keep her nap time at 11am rather than aim for something like 12pm?

    • Natalie May 22, 2017 at 7:59 am - Reply

      Keep her at 11 am since that’s what they’ll be doing at daycare 🙂

  2. Nicole Batzofin May 23, 2017 at 10:59 am - Reply

    Thank you for this article! My 18 month old son is currently transitioning to 1, been going ok except for he’s back to early waking, starting at 4-5:30a. I usually get him up at 6:30am, and follow your early waking protocol, I let him work it out as long as possible. Is early waking part of the transition? He’s napping at 11a, and has had varying lengths of naps, anywhere from 1 hour to 2.5. Thank you!

    • Natalie May 23, 2017 at 2:50 pm - Reply

      Yep!! And it should resolve in the next few weeks. Early morning seems to pop up a lot when there are transitions like this. I’m confident he’ll go back to normal soon.

  3. Megan June 7, 2017 at 6:31 am - Reply

    Hi Natalie! Thank you so much for all the info you share. I have 16 month twins. They sleep in the same room. What yo you mean by skipping their afternoon nap? Just refusing to sleep at that time? I think we might be there. It’s been 2 days. No idea how I can survive this for a month!

    • Natalie June 7, 2017 at 8:25 am - Reply

      Yep! Straight up refusing to fall asleep for about an hour or longer.

  4. Rebekah Travis July 12, 2017 at 2:52 pm - Reply

    I love This post and your site! Thank you SO much for typing this out. Why is sleep such a stressful thing? I have a question about my 15 month old (just turned that age today). He’s been fighting second nap, OR pooped during “naptime” and nap has failed. I started to transition to 1 nap, but I’m only on day 2 and am going to go back to 2 naps until he refuses for 2 weeks like you said. He is a VERY difficult sleeper, extremely stubborn. My question is, he was going down for 2 naps at 9-10ish (depending on 6-7 wake) and sleeping for 1 hour, nap 2 about 4 hours later. He’s not seemingly tired before that. However, yesterday and today I’m doing one nap have been terrible and he has been falling apart the entire day so I would like to try to go back to naps, but wonder what times you recommend. I wonder if he was starting to refuse the second nap because I had the timing a little bit messed up ? Thank you so much! I wish I had been able to ask you the question on your video yesterday, I’m worried I will do damage in a week !

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